Giving your beloved an air fryer for Valentine’s Day is nice and all, but have you ever gifted joy? We’re talking spine-tingling, toe-curling, share-it-with-your-partner level of joy.
Welcome to the safest space on the internet where bedside drawers overflow and coupledom gets a very sexy level up.
From vibrators and cock rings to massagers, kinky games, mood-setting candles and more massage oil than strictly necessary, we’ve scoured the secret, sexy corners of the World Wide Web to bring you our curated edit of the best sex toys for couples this Valentine’s Day.
Ready to play together? Read on.
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The Best Beginner Sex Toys For Couples
Highonlove, Pave Grace Gift Set
You can’t put a price on love, but a crystal-adorned vibrator comes pretty damn close (it’s on everyone’s Valentine’s Day wish list this year).
The kit includes a Grace Palm massager with premium silicone and, by default, premium nuts as well. You’ll also get a handy vial of stimulating sensual oil made with cannabis seed oil. Enjoy the gift pack together, or solo!
Adult Toy Mega Store, Mystery Bag
Rules are – there can’t be any judgment with a mystery bag full of sex toys, so release your inhibitions and bon appetit! This fun little goodie bag of seduction is packed with a random selection of cock rings, vibrators, lube, bondage gear, anal toys, novelty items, male masturbators and massagers. Each bag comes with at least four items. You could say it’s very good bang for ya buck!
We-Vibe, Sync 2 Remote Control Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator
The We-Vibe Sync 2 Vibrator is the ultimate addition to any couple’s side drawer. Whether you’re in the same room or completely different places (states, countries or continents), you can still enjoy some ol’ fashioned fun together thanks to its clever app connectivity.
Designed to be worn during partnered play, the Sync 2 is fully adjustable for maximum comfort, with soft edges and a sleek, flexible design that fits just right. It can be controlled via the remote or the We-Vibe app, so you (or your partner) can adjust it from anywhere.
Plus, it’s whisper-quiet, waterproof and made from silky-smooth, body-safe silicone.
Normal, The Couple Bundle 1
The Date Night Bundle is a thoughtfully curated trio designed to spark connection and pleasure for couples. Featuring two versatile vibrators for external and internal play, plus intimacy-boosting conversation cards to set the mood, it’s all about slowing down and exploring together. A chic Valentine’s Day gift that’s perfect for beginners who want to have a little fun.
We-Vibe, Date Night Special Edition App Controlled Couples Kit
Date night at the movies is cute and all, but we’d argue you should cut to the chase and invest your joint savings in this shareable couples’ gift set featuring two We-Vibe faves.
The Date Night Special Edition Kit includes a rabbit vibrator with a flexible shaft and adjustable fit for targeted clitoral stimulation, plus a vibrating willy ring, which is yet NOT to fit the girth of most joysticks. Both toys are app-controlled, meaning you can hand over control (or take it) directly from your phone.
The couples’ toys are smooth, seamless, unbelievably quiet and made from body-safe silicone, in case you’ve got loitering housemates and zero interest in being overheard.
The Best Inclusive Sex Toys & Accessories
Lovehoney, Hands-Free Sex Toy Holder
A clever accessory for all genders and a range of mobility needs, the Lovehoney Hands-Free Sex Toy Holder is a harness-style accessory that securely holds toys in place, freeing up your hands and reducing strain during play.
With adjustable straps and soft fabric, it’s easy to customise for different body shapes and positions, making it great for anyone who benefits from extra support or wants more control without relying on upper-body strength.
Cute Little F*ckers, Jix
Meet Jix (a sex toy with they/them pronouns), a slender, rechargeable double dildo designed by queer brand Cute Little Fuckers with pleasure and comfort front of mind. Their tapered, gentle shape makes them a great option for beginners, including those exploring anal play, while still bringing powerful sensation with three speeds.
Designed for shared pleasure, Jix can be enjoyed solo or with a partner, with one end acting as an easy ergonomic handle so you can explore internal and external stimulation together.
Dual Rider, Remote Control Grinder With Straps
The Dual Rider Remote Control Grinder is a wearable toy with a remote that lets you easily customise vibration intensity and patterns for hands-free pleasure. Made to suit all body types and play styles, it offers flexible, intuitive fun regardless of anatomy – making it a genuinely inclusive favourite.
Iroha By Tenga, Yuki Vibrator
Created to support a body-positive approach to pleasure, this soft, snowman-shaped vibrator features a cushioned silicone body that delivers broad, low-intensity vibrations to the vulva. Ideal for external stimulation and very light contact rather than penetration, it’s suited to people who experience vulvodynia or pain during sex, thanks to its four gentle settings.
It’s also easy for a partner to use, allowing shared intimacy that centres comfort and care, while letting you stay fully in control of sensation and pace.
Lovense, Flexer App Controlled Silicone Hands-Free Wearable Knicker Vibrator
An app-controlled wearable, the Lovense Flexer is a silicone G-spot vibrator that delivers targeted stimulation while remaining completely hands-free. Its adjustable shape and customisable vibration modes make it easy to tailor sensations for different body shapes and preferences.
Controlled via Bluetooth or app, it’s intuitive to use solo or with a partner for effortless, comfortable pleasure.
Luddi, The Ziggy
The Ziggy by Luddi is a beautifully designed, NDIS-eligible stand-alone vibrator made to be adaptable and accessible for a wide range of bodies and abilities. Its soft, ergonomic shape and intuitive controls make it easy to hold and use with minimal effort.
Purpose-built with accessibility in mind, Ziggy supports people with mobility needs, dexterity differences or varying levels of strength, helping make pleasure more comfortable and enjoyable. Being NDIS-eligible means access to assistive technology is available for those who qualify.
Liberator, Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
The Liberator Sex Position Wedge & Ramp Combo uses firm, supportive foam to gently elevate the hips, back or legs, creating comfortable angles that reduce strain during intimacy. Designed to support a wide range of bodies and mobility needs, it’s especially helpful for anyone who benefits from extra physical support or easier positioning.
The Best Anal Sex Toys For Couples
Adult Toy Mega Store, Jelly Fun Flex Anal Teaser
Jelly is always a fun time, so get ready to probe your partner’s bits with this bendy bat of joy. The Jelly Fun Flex Anal Teaser is a great toy for any introductory backdoor play you might be diving into and its super-smooth finish means it effortlessly fits in and out of crevices with max satisfaction.
Vush, Soda Ripple Vibrating Anal Plug
A fun toy that’s easy to use and comfortable to wear, making it a top pick for couples trying anal play. Its gentle ripple texture and undulating vibrations add a gorgeous layer of stimulation, fab for shared pleasure and play. Compact yet impactful, it’s beginner-friendly while still very enjoyable for more experienced users.
Magic Touch Fun, Prostalator
The Prostalator is a prostate stimulator that delivers targeted pleasure through its curved shape and multiple vibration modes. It works by gently pressing against the prostate (aka, the P-spot), with adjustable speeds that range from subtle pulses to deeper, more intense sensations.
Easy to use, USB-rechargeable and water-resistant, it will fast become the MVP of your naughty drawer.
Adult Toy Mega Store, Luxe Zenith Wireless Plug
We mean, just look at it! The Luxe Zenith Wireless Plug is a phallic piece of art above the rest. You can use this bad boy with or without the wireless remote, which, when turned on, will send delicious vibrations up and down the toy.
The Best Vibrators For Couples
ROMP Hype, Rechargeable G-Spot Stimulating Bullet Vibrator
Step up your partner play this VDay with the Romp Hype Rechargeable G-Spot Stimulating Bullet, a compact vibrator made to target the G-spot with powerful, adjustable vibrations. Its USB-rechargeable design and simple one-button control make it easy for beginners and experienced users alike.
Satisfyer, Endless Joy
For a little more jingle in the bedroom, feast your eyes on the Satisfyer Endless Joy. This bad boy truly is a godsend and is a flawless addition to any nipple, clitoris, labia, perineum, testicle or penis play. There’s loads of ways to use this vibrator, as it’s super flexible and can configure around 100 vibration patterns.
Share Satisfaction, Joia
We’ve crossed paths with a lot of vibrators in our time, but when it comes to shared pleasure, nothing, and we mean nothing, beats the Share Satisfaction Joia. This perfectly shaped stimulator is a clitoral MVP that plays very nicely with a partner, so no one’s left waiting their turn.
With 14 stimulation modes and an ergonomic design made for couple play, it’s basically the cheese board of sex toys – yummy, crowd-pleasing and absolutely essential.
Satisfyer, Pro 4 Couples
If simplicity is key and an ode to the shiz that’s been shaking up the sex toy world for a while now, you can’t go past the Satisfyer Pro 4 for couples.
This ergonomic piece of sex-tech gets worn during intercourse and will stimulate both players of this game, but (and we urge you to sit down for this next piece of intel) it also stimulates a number of vibrations and wave patterns to knock those orgasms home like a home run.
Share Satisfaction, Gaia
Two words: erotic bliss. That’s exactly what you’ll be buying into when you purchase one of these bad boys. This toy really is the pièce de résistance of couples’ play, with 10 vibration modes and a seamless fit between shaft and clitoris/G-spot (and that means double stimulation for you and your partner).
We also love what this little powerhouse is made from, think silky soft silicone with ABS plastic, which, if you put two and two together, means Gaia is 100% waterproof too. Added bonus! She runs at a noise level of fewer than 50 decibels, too, which is a big yay for any discreet lovin’ you have tee’d up.
Ilo Wellmess, Pulse Vube
Aussie brand Ilo Wellness brings elevated aesthetics to seriously fun toys, and the Pulse Vibe is where it’s at. Designed for couples, it combines external air suction with internal tapping and vibrating sensations for a deeply immersive experience.
Its ergonomic, easy-to-hold shape allows for precise, guided stimulation of both clitoral and internal pleasure zones while staying comfortably in place during partnered play. With 10 synchronised settings to explore in real time, it’s intuitive, customisable, and designed for shared fun.
Lovense, Dolce Adjustable Dual Stimulation Vibrator
Tiny but ever so mighty, this vibrating gadget is built to bring you the perfect climax. It does all the usual deeds; however, where it really shines is in its Bluetooth connectivity. Yep, there’s an actual app to match with the Lovense Quake Adjustable Dual Stimulation Vibrator, which packs even more features, including sound activation and actual syncing to music (picture yourself hitting God-tier pleasure while you play Harry Styles on max vol).
The app also lets you control the vibrator from short range, so you can get into some fun couples play while you’re in the living room and your partner is cooking up a feast in the kitchen.
Lelo, Tiani 24k Couples Vibrator
The Lelo Tiani 24k Vibrator is as much a collector’s item as it is your golden ticket to the ‘palace pleasure aplenty’. Sporting a dual-motor (oh, she does not run out) and a 24k gold ring, this gal is meant to be worn inside vagina holders out there for the sheer bliss of it, with your bedroom partner able to make the most of the intensity from the outside.
The best bit? It practically screams several different positions, so limber up, it’s going to be a long night.
The Best Vibrating Rings For Couples
Ilo Wellness, Ring
Tiny ring, big vibes. Aussie sex-toy pros Ilo Wellness know exactly how to bring the fun, and this sleek little ring is designed to slip seamlessly into couples’ play.
Worn by you or your partner, its compact size makes it easy to introduce. Hot tip: take it beyond the obvious and try it on nipples or the perineum for a whole new level of joy.
LBDO, Loop 5-Speed Vibrating Ring
The cult couples’ vibrating ring that has sold out three times is officially back in stock just in time for Valentine’s Day! The LBDO Loop vibrating ring is a body-safe, USB-rechargeable couples’ toy designed to enhance sensation for both partners.
With five vibration patterns, a flexible fit, and a whisper-quiet, waterproof design, it’s intuitive, fun, and highly effective.
Lovense, Diamo App Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring
Okay, this small but mighty Diamo Vibrating Cock Ring is not only comfortable and on the hush-hush side but is kind of a fun toy to uh, take outside of the house, if you know what we mean *winky face*.
There are also multiple ways to wear this crown, especially a thumbs up if you’re keen to target the perineum at the same time (which you are). We recommend using a water-based lube with this one.
The Best Sex Games For Couples
Lovehoney, GaySex! Card Game
Representing the LGBTQ+ community, this gender-neutral card game is a flirty way to play together. Packed with hot prompts and cheeky inspo, it takes the pressure off and turns curiosity into connection.
Pipedream, Oral Sex Dice
An underrated bedside drawer necessity, an oral sex dice can turn any Netflix and chill night into a ‘Netflix and thrill’ showdown. A great way to kick your kink mood into gear, the oral sex dice offers up one dice with the options to lick, suck, blow or kiss and another with various body parts to be seduced.
Lovehoney, Position Of The Week Cards
Snap, but make it sexy. Keen to mix up the doona dance with your partner but lacking ideas or inspo? This deck of cards does all the err, legwork for you! Complete with a slew of spicy positions, get ready for lift off.
The Best Lube And Massage Oil
Girls Get Off, Juicee Water-Based Lubricant
For sensitive-skin lovers, this one’s for you. Juicee is a gentle, high-quality personal lubricant formulated with sensitivity in mind, making it ideal for delicate skin or anyone prone to irritation.
The hypoallergenic, vegan-friendly formula is free from parabens, silicones and artificial colours, delivering a smooth, long-lasting glide without discomfort. It’s water-based, which means it’s easy to wash off and safe to use with all toys and condoms.
LBDO, Essensual Lube
Update your bedside with this natural, water-based personal lubricant that won’t need to be hidden away in a drawer thanks to its cute design.
Eros, Nuru Massage Gel Bottle
If you thought your partner didn’t need a one-litre bottle of massage gel, well, yes, they do. The Nuru massage gel is originally from Japan and has been voted one of the world’s best gels online.
Silicone-free, odourless, and colourless, this gel is everything you need and more. It doesn’t stick and leaves no stains, so you’ll also be giving the gift of time to your significant other.
Bruxa, Body Oil Of Summer
A hand-poured, Australian-made body oil crafted from 100 per cent natural, plant-based ingredients like squalane, olive oil, and Australian botanical extracts that deeply hydrate and nourish skin with a silky, fast-absorbing finish. Its jasmine-scented formula works beautifully as a daily body, face and hair oil or as a luxurious addition to a warm bath or partnered sensual massage, helping skin feel supple and smooth.
The Best Candles For Mood-Setting
Make Me Melt, Drip Candles
We’re quite obsessed with these slow-drip, skin-safe wax candles, made for playful temperature fun that warms quickly to the touch and leaves just a hint of heat on the skin. Available in a range of chic shades that create sensual, coloured trails across the body. So fun, so seductive.
Share Satisfaction, Massage Candle Set
Let’s be honest. Sexy time doesn’t just happen anymore. You need to establish the setting, work your way up to a climactic string of events and hopefully, finish with a very satisfying happy ending. To help get things underway, candles are a great prop. But what if we told you, there was one that can simultaneously be used as a body-safe massage oil?
Enter the Share Satisfaction Massage Candle Set – a trio of sensual scents (Vanilla, Pheromone and Rose) that melt down into a warm, body-safe massage oil, excellent for setting the mood and easing into intimate foreplay together.
Joujou, Dame Massage Candle
This scrumptious candle by Aussie brand Joujou melts into a warm, skin-loving massage oil you can pour straight onto your partner. Made with body-safe, low-temperature wax that transforms into silky oil and infused with inviting scents, Valentine’s Day has never smelled (or felt) so darn good.
Bite Me, Massage Candle
Set the scene this Valentine’s Day with the Bite Me Massage Candle, the candle that literally becomes the experience. Light it, watch the warm wax melt, and then use the silky-smooth massage oil to ease tension and turn up the romance.
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